Have You Tried the New Blogger Templates?

I have been putting it off for about a week, even though every time I go in to change a setting or moderate a comment, I get an annoying pop up. Today I got an idea to add a budget meals menu (monthly) are to my Coupon Newbie blog, and the time was right. The new templates are really cool! There are so many choices! Between the new template styles, and all the backgrounds to customize, you have a lot to choose from. Amazingly I was able to find a piggy bank, which has been my theme image since I started this blog a few months ago.
One problem I did run into, which was irritating, was that fact that any HTML gadgets you add or edit now require titles. However, I found a very simple fix here, which did work perfectly. I thought I would pass the info on. Comment if you redo your blog so I can see your new layout!

Do You Get Adequate Sleep?

Chris and I used to often go late night shopping and we couldn’t help but notice the amount of people up at past 10pm. Children, I also mean pajama clad toddlers, often being pulled along by impatient adults or sitting half asleep in shopping trolleys.

People are working longer hours to cater for late night shopping and families are having to accommodate this, often suffering from lack of quality family time together. The world certainly is spinning its world fast with little regard to the importance of getting adequate sleep.

Medical science is now telling us that sleep deprivation can cause many health problems including problems of concentration and judgment when driving a car. We cannot burn the candle at both ends and expect to do well during the day! Our bodies were created for rest. Our children need their sleep to grow properly and to process all their new experiences and learning during the day. We are now told that teenagers need just as much sleep as their younger siblings.

If healthy teens and children need adequate sleep to function properly, how much more those of us who suffer from chronic illness and pain? Surely it is most important for us to rest and to try to schedule in more sleep!

When I was seeing my rheumatologist for lupus/fibromyalgia problems, she told me that it is not an old-wives' tale that the hours of sleep prior to midnight are the most refreshing. Apparently, an hours' sleep prior to midnight is equal to 2 after. This goes on our circadian rhythm. She advised me to be asleep by 10pm at the latest every night and to make bedtime a regular time- and getting up.

We know that a lot of chronic illness and certainly chronic pain can result in lack of good quality sleep, so it is even more important that we try to regulate sleeping in order to work with and not against, circadian rhythm. So do as I now do, and plan a regular time for retiring each night and work out a routine that tells your body that it's time for lights out!

If your children are not used to having a nightly ritual or routine, may I suggest starting one? It may be difficult to initiate, but it would be well worth it. With the household quiet of an evening, it would be more conducive to strengthening your marriage and allowing for more togetherness. This would benefit everyone.

by Glenys Hicks of Morning Cuppas With Glenys

IFB KJV Blog Roll Announcement

We have been having trouble with spammers commenting (in characters that look Chinese), and linking to porn sites for the past few weeks. If you are not aware of this, thank the Lord, I try to delete them asap. Unless anyone is opposed, I am going to turn off commenting without preapproval. This may mean comments will take a while to show up, but it will get rid of any porn comments, and hopefully take us off their radar. If you can help moderate comments, send me a note, and I will add your email to the comment moderation notification list. I am so thankful for all the community help on this blog roll, I love reading the post you all submit. God bless!

Slow Down, Daddy!

"Slow down, Daddy, I just can't run that fast!"
The little voice calls out to you, as you walk on past.
"Wait for me, Daddy, I'm trying hard to follow you..."
Walking closely in your footsteps - where are you leading to?

"Hey Daddy, hey Daddy, come take a look at me!"
The call goes on unheeded; too caught up in your thoughts to see.
"Come over here, Daddy, can you stop a minute and play?"
The little voice laughs aloud, but you are distracted by your day.

"Oh Daddy, guess what we learned in class today.
Jesus loves me, this I know. And then we knelt to pray...
Tell me Bible stories about Jesus - I really love those parts...
I got saved today, Daddy, Jesus now lives in my heart!"

"I love you, Daddy, I thought of you all day long...
We had so much fun - but I miss you when you're gone.
Good night, Daddy, it's been a long, long, day.
I'm so sleepy, Daddy, but I love it when you pray."

"Come play with me, Daddy," the words echo in your ear,
As you gaze upon your sleeping child, the one you love so dear.
"It's been so long, Daddy, I was waiting for you to come home to me."
And you vow to be there tomorrow, to be the Daddy you need to be.

For Father's Day
May 30th/06
Jerry Bouey

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath:
but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

Ephesians 6:4

Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD:
And thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart,
and with all thy soul, and with all thy might.
And these words, which I command thee this day,
shall be in thine heart:
And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children,
and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house,
and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down,
and when thou risest up.

Deuteronomy 6:4-7

The Father Of The Fatherless

The verses listed below show the passages where some of the phrases and names of God came from. I believe these Scriptural reminders of how God is our Heavenly Father would be a tremendous comfort to you, as they were to me.

The Father Of The Fatherless

In the Bible, God’s many names are there to be found:
He’s the God of all grace, and His grace abounds;
He’s the Father of mercies – I found mercy there;
He’s the Father of spirits - I rest in His care.

My Father is with me; He will never depart.
His names offer comfort - they reveal His heart.
One name can give me hope in my loneliness:
My Father is “the Father of the fatherless.”

Every good and perfect gift comes down from above;
In my grief and sorrow, I’m surrounded by Your love.
I know I’m not an orphan – I’m precious in Your sight,
Held securely in Your tender arms, Father of lights.

From everlasting to everlasting,
My Heavenly Father’s love stays the same;
Comforting me within His very presence,
Abba Father – Daddy - is more than a name.

You bind up my wounds and bring healing when the tears start.
You give me peace within that restores my broken heart.
You're the soothing comfort I need in my distress;
My Father, “the Father of the fatherless.”

June 8th/08
Jerry Bouey

Psalms 27:10 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up.

Psalms 68:5-6 A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows, is God in his holy habitation. God setteth the solitary in families: he bringeth out those which are bound with chains: but the rebellious dwell in a dry land.

Isaiah 9:6 For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counseller, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace.

Hosea 14:3 Asshur shall not save us; we will not ride upon horses: neither will we say any more to the work of our hands, Ye are our gods: for in thee the fatherless findeth mercy.

John 14:18 I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.

2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

Ephesians 1:15-19 Wherefore I also, after I heard of your faith in the Lord Jesus, and love unto all the saints, Cease not to give thanks for you, making mention of you in my prayers; That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him: The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, And what is the exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power,

Hebrews 12:9 Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?

James 1:17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

1 Peter 1:3-5 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you, Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.

The Drive #1 – Our Praise is Like a Stream in the Valley

I was driving to work recently when a few out-of-the-ordinary happenings occurred. I like to use back roads to get to my office, and those roads have been closed lately due to overhaul construction. This has caused detours, roadblocks, and needing to remember that I have to remember to take the long way, because the back roads are closed!

But in the process, I received two valuable blocks of instruction. We will consider the first of the two in this post, where God used a valley stream to teach me things about the kind of praise he’s looking for.

I was headed to work, and forgot that the back roads were closed. Upon realizing it, I was looking for the best place to make a U-turn, when I noticed a beautiful stream beside the road. I felt an unusual stirring to pull over and look around for a few minutes, so I did.

As soon as I stepped outside of my vehicle, a voice as clear as day began speaking to me, and didn’t stop for the next 20 minutes. It told me that my praise is like a rippling stream, with the capacity of being well-pleasing to God, and that by observing this stream, I would receive some instruction. Just as I was pleased by the sight of the stream in the valley, God is pleased by our praise.

I heard and saw that praise is like a stream in the valley in 3 ways:

  1. The stream was noticeable
  2. Objects in the stream don’t stop the stream
  3. Eyesores of the stream


1. The Stream Was Noticeable

And they sang together by course in praising and giving thanks unto the LORD; because he is good, for his mercy endureth for ever toward Israel. And all the people shouted with a great shout, when they praised the LORD, because the foundation of the house of the LORD was laid. – Ezra 3:11 (KJV)

Here in Ezra we find the Jews praising the Lord, as the foundation of the temple (commissioned by Cyrus) was laid. Ezra goes on to declare at the end of the chapter that between the noise of the shouting for joy and the weeping of the old men, one could hear that something was happening a great distance away. Their praise was noticeable.

And as I thought on the valley stream before me, I noticed that this stream is visible. This particular stream wasn’t noisy, as some streams can be. But the stream was noticeable, and the stream was a very lovely organic sight.

And just as the stream in the valley was noticed by me, our praise should be noticeable to God. The stream was appealing, as our praise should flow naturally and please God. Does God notice your praise? Is your praise appealing to him? Your praise will appeal to God when God is who your praise glorifies.


2. Objects In the Stream Don’t Stop the Stream

Paul's Prayers

1. Prayer for knowledge - Eph. 1:17

2. Prayer for power - Eph. 3:14

3. Prayer of seven petitions - Col. 1:9-11

4. Prayer for keen perception and fruits of righteousness
in the believer - Phil. 1:9-11

Love Me First

Love Me First
~ Author Unknown

Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, to have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God says to the Christian, “No, not until you are satisfied, fulfilled and content with being loved by Me alone. Not until you have given yourself totally unreservedly to Me, until you have an intensely personal unique relationship with Me alone. Not until you have discovered that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found. Then will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you.

You will never be united with another until you are united with Me, exclusive of anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing, one that you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow Me to bring it to you. Just keep watching Me, expecting greatest things. Keep experiencing the satisfactions that I am. Keep listening and learning the things I tell you.

You just wait, that’s all. Don’t be anxious, don’t worry. Don’t look around at the things other have gotten or that I’ve given them. Don’t look at things you think you want. And then, when you’re ready, and until the one I have for you is ready – I am working even this moment to have both of you ready at the same time – until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life I prepared for you, you won’t be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me, and is thus the perfect love. And dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me. I want you to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection, and love that I offer you with Myself.

Know that I love you utterly,
I am Almighty.

Proud To Be A Fundamentalist Christian


Lately we hear the word ' fundamentalist' being spoken of in a negative light. These days, a fundamentalist Christian is spoken of in almost the same light as a fundamentalist Muslim. In both cases, the adjective is steeped in negativity, suspicion and hatred. We Christians are lumped beside fundamentalists such as the Taliban and nothing could be further from the truth in what we so passionately believe and stand for! So what is a fundamentalist Christian?

To my mind, a fundamentalist Christian is one who believes in the fundamental premise of Christianity: that the Word of God is THE WORD OF GOD. He or she bases all relevant experiences and lifes' walk based on the fundamental belief that if God said it, then that is how it is... or how it came to pass.

I believe in creationism, the seven day creation of the world, the Flood, the virgin birth, the deity and sinlessness of Christ, His atoning and sacrificial death, His resurrection, the supernatural life in the Spirit, and the need for regeneration of our sinful life through repentance and Gods' grace and the Blood of Christ. Fundamentally there is no other way to be saved except through Christ.

Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. Acts 4:12

I believe that God has given us His Word to show us how to live righteously and well in this present day and that He Who began a good work in us will complete it in the day of Christ Jesus. I believe it is fundamentally essential to being a Christian. My whole life is based on fundamental ideas which are far removed from the fundamentalism spoken of with fear and hatred.

Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform [it] until the day of Jesus Christ: Philippians 1:6

The fundamentals of Christian fundamentalism are based on the fruits of the Spirit against which there is no Law. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23

Because God said that He is Love and the Life and the Truth and the Way, and because I believe that with all my heart, mind and soul, I am proud to be a fundamentalist Christian!

Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6

Christians are a peculiar people because we are set apart from the world, and we will evoke a certain amount of fear and suspicion in some of the unsaved. This is because they don't understand the fundamentals of our faith. If they did, they could only hasten to become our brethren in Christ and pray that there were more fundamental believers...

Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works. Titus 2:14
But ye [are] a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light: 1 Peter 2:9

by Glenys Robyn Hicks of Morning Cuppas With Glenys

Lightening Strikes a Jesus Statue

If you have not heard or read about the incident of the "King of Kings Jesus" statue getting struck down by lightening, read it here http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_lightning_strikes_jesus_statue.

Now, there are a lot of anti-Christians who are having a field day with this. But here is the brief, and simple truth - God never has, nor never will, want any statue erected of himself, for himself. There are so many verses from the Word of God that deal with this issue, here is just one:

Psalm 97:6-7 The heavens declare his righteousness, and all the people see his glory. (7) Confounded be all they that serve graven images, that boast themselves of idols: worship him, all ye gods.

If you think that God is not in the idol/statue taking down business, then maybe you should read 1 Samuel chapter 5. What happened the other day is nothing new, it has been happening since the times of the Old Testament. What we have witnessed is Old Testament actions being played out right before our eyes.

Parents Of Prodigals


My husband and I have experienced the reality of knowing, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth” 3 John 4 Our two daughters professed Christ at an early age, witnessed in their schools, traveled on mission trips, and embarked into adult life with a passion for Christ. Our family life has been built around joy and laughter; and even through the teen years, we enjoyed close family times backpacking and ministering together here and abroad. The girls have been characterized as leaders, constantly encouraging and challenging those around them to live their Christian beliefs.

It always brought us great joy knowing that our children were walking in the truth. Then one bought into a lie. Now we see the flip side to the above verse; there is no greater sorrow than seeing your children walk in a lie. Since our daughter’s ungodly choices, we have grieved for the loss of our close family relationships, for our witness in our community and family, over the eventual consequences of her decisions, and even grieved that God would allow this to happen.

Our joy, peace, energy, and focus have been drained and replaced with despair, anger, fatigue and distractedness. We have been plagued by questions. How could this happen? What should we do? What would influence her? How should we respond? Our close family was thrown into crisis; joy turned to sorrow, and lies twisted truth. The parable of the prodigal son has become a real and personal journey with a precious, yet prodigal, daughter.

At one point in this heavy journey, I had a mental picture of us facing our prodigal daughter, she standing with her back to us. We were pleading and begging for her to turn around, listen to God’s Word, and recognize the lies. Then the focus shifted and God was standing behind me, my back turned to Him, and He was calling me to turn around and to recognize the lies. God was trying to get my attention while I was trying to get my daughter’s attention. Her lies were different from mine, but nonetheless I had also been ensnared by lies. God was pleading with me to recognize and accept His truth in my own life.

God’s truth needs to be sorted from the enemy’s lies.

I cannot allow my daughter’s actions to define me, but I can, through God’s help, allow them to refine me. Through godly counsel and His Word, the truth is being sifted from the enemy’s subtle and pervasive lies. The refinement process is not complete, but I have identified, examined, and discarded the following lies:

Lie #1: What if?

The enemy loves to get us into the “what if” or blame game. What if I had been more persuasive? What if I had counseled her with more studied words? What if I had been more discerning? What if I had just been a better mom? I was consumed with analyzing every nuance over the past years, reviewing my interactions, and questioning my role as both mother and wife.

My analytical thoughts became paralyzing and I spiraled downward into a pit of remorse and inadequacy. Slowly through the slime, I began to see that it is not all about me. My eloquence or lack of it, my parenting skills or lack of them, will not ultimately change a heart. That is the Holy Spirit’s job. I can be obedient to God’s direction. I can do the best I can in parenting and counseling. But the ultimate work is God’s. My pleas will not bring a prodigal into right thinking, right living, or right decisions.

Our daughter made this choice in spite of Scripture, godly models, and counsel, and she will also reap the consequences of her choice. Ezekiel 18:20 reminds us that “…the son will not share the guilt of the father, nor will the father share the guilt of the son. The righteousness of the righteous man will be credited to him, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against him.” I can neither accept the blame nor take the credit. The “what ifs” must cease because they are not from God.

Lie #2: If you parent well enough, your child will not make ungodly choices.

When my daughter turned away from her firm foundation, I questioned how this could happen to my family. Subconsciously and incorrectly, I presumed that Proverbs 22:6, “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it” guaranteed a child’s godly choices. The Lord showed me, through my own heartache, that I have wrongly judged others and their parenting ability. I thought if someone had a child not walking with the Lord, it was always a direct reflection on their parenting skills. Now on the other side with a wayward daughter, I realize the lie and repent of my judgment of others. Godly parenting does not guarantee a godly child.

Lie #3: My prodigal adult child disqualifies me for ministry.

One of the qualifications listed in 1 Tim. 3:4 for an overseer is to “manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect.” This does not refer to adult children. But Satan wants to fuel our insecurities, have us focus on our inadequacies, and cripple our ministries. Instead of stepping out of ministry, we should step up to be used by God. The more open and transparent we are in our parenting journey, the more dependent we are on Him for strength, and the more opportunities there will be for us to minister.

During the painful times of answering concerned inquires about our daughter, has emerged a new openness for those sharing similar burdens. One embarrassing instance of addressing pointed questions at a neighborhood party resulted in a phenomenal opportunity to share God’s truth. Leadership is not about being perfect individuals. It is about being humbly obedient and available. Transparency and vulnerability can make us better servant ministers.

Lie #4: God is powerless to intervene.

Somewhere in this extended battle, I crossed the line from believing God would not act to believing God could not act. I fell prey to the lie that God could not change our daughter’s mind or way. My personal systematic theology had me spinning in circles around God’s sovereignty and the free will of man. The Lord had chosen to not answer my fervent prayers to radically intervene in our daughter’s life. Since faith and hope are intricately entwined, I was hopeless.

My view of God was too small. I do not understand how God’s sovereignty and free will work, but I have become convinced that God is so much bigger than we can ever imagine. He can and will intervene if He so chooses. This mom needs to trust more, worry less, and stop trying to figure everything out. He is God and I am not! My God, our God, is a God of hope that fills us with all joy and peace as we trust in Him (Rom. 15:13), and He is more than able to do great things.

This mother’s journey in parenting a prodigal is far from over. The hurt and sadness are still very real and close. But as the Lord has revealed the insidiousness of the enemy’s lies, the burden has become more manageable. Now I can focus on what I am learning and not on what my daughter should be learning. This was reiterated during a recent visit. We were scheduled to rendezvous with our precious prodigal after church.

The sermon was unexpectedly all too relevant: “Grace Demands a Death.” The pastor pointed out that if we are to extend grace, as Christ did, we must also experience death. As parents, we need to die to our dreams, our desires, and our expectations for our children. We need to love them unconditionally, expecting nothing in return. Still stirred from this poignant message, we exited the church building and saw our daughter standing on the far side of the parking lot.

My husband ran to our cold, stiff daughter, standing sullenly by the car, and wrapped her in a warm, loving hug. That was our best visit to date! My hope has been renewed; He is restoring my soul. Like Habakkuk, I will wait and keep watch from the ramparts to see what the Lord will do. God is in control and He loves us and our prodigals dearly. author unknown

As a mother of a prodigal, I found this article very truthful and helpful. To all parents of prodigals I say, "Don't look inward, behind or forward- just keep looking up!"

“Bear one another burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ” Galatians 6:2

By Glenys Hicks of Morning Cuppas With Glenys


Never Satisified

Proverbs 27:20 Hell and destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are never satisfied.

We live in a day and age were few people are ever truly satisfied. Just as Hell and the grave are always ready to receive the next person, the eye, or desires of man, are never satisfied. In ministering to individuals, I have observed how many are never satisfied when it comes to their job or their spouse. Their eye is always drawn to the negatives and the flaws and not the positives and the blessings. They always think that there is more to be offered and that they could do much better somewhere else with someone else.
 
Many people in America have become spoiled and now look at their faith and their Christianity in the same manner. The common mindset is, "What can I get out of it?" instead of, "What can I give to it?" People now walk into churches with shopping lists, and are no longer Spirit led. The problem with this is that we will never find the perfect church because it does not exist here on this side of eternity. There will always be some facet of it that does not meet your expectation. Yet, if it was the perfect church, you would not be allowed to join!  The real danger with this mindset is that it puts us in a critical spirit. A person who tries to serve the Lord in this manner will always feel as if they sacrificed and lowered their standard just to join a church.
 
We need to put aside the mindset of Lot (who looked and chose Sodom because of what it could offer), and take the mindset of Philip (who obeyed the leading of the Holy Spirit and left a very successful area of ministry to go and reach one Ethiopian eunuch in the desert). I leave you with a quote from Evangelsit Jayson Godsey (http://evangelistjaysongodsey.com/): We need to put aside the grocery shopping/garage saling mentality when looking for the will of God.

God’s Power Is Purpose-Driven #7: Church Services – The Song Service

Last time we talked about the power of God being purpose-driven within the church. Specifically, we discussed those things that hinder and those things that help a church’s spiritual health in its pursuit to accomplish its God-given purpose. We saw how God’s power dries up in the presence of secret sin, gossip, and bitterness; we also saw how God's power abounds in the midst of a church full of fellowship, love and unity.

Now we begin to consider God’s power being purpose-driven within actual church services themselves. We will consider the following aspects of a church service:

1. The song service
2. The preaching service
3. Special services

We will begin by looking at the song service portion. I am not interested in arguing what musical styles should be in a New Testament church. That's not what this is about. Some styles are obvious losers, so if you like Christian Metal or Gangsta Gospel, the intent is not to offend you is I recommend you find a genre of music that actually honors God. Like anybody else, my opinion on the subject is naturally biased in favor of my preferences. It's best to have standards but not be too rigid. There’s a place between legalistic and liberal I try to find regarding music.

Just a brief note: throughout this post I will refer to musical service as "singing". But scripturally, musical service is just as relevant in the form of playing an instrument. God is honored by an instrumentalist just as he is by singers, so understand that everytime I say, "singer", or "singing", I might as well be saying, "instrumetalist" or "playing". Keep that in mind.

Music in the Bible stirs God to action, and the best music in a church service will do that too. What kind of music does God want to hear? He wants to hear music with the intent of glorifying Himself. We’ll consider music in a church service on three levels:

1. Congregational singing
2. Group singing
3. Solo singing

We begin with the first form of music in a church:




1. Congregational Singing


Praise ye the LORD. Sing unto the LORD a new song, and his praise in the congregation of saints. - Psalm 149:1 (KJV)

In this portion of Scripture, we find David speaking of singing to God in the congregation of saints, i.e., at church. Throughout David’s life, God did a lot for David that deserved David’s praise, and because of it, when David came to the Tabernacle ready to sing praises to God with others who loved the Lord.

Congregational singing is a great way to promote unity within a church. When a church in one accord lifts its voice and glorifies God through music, a certain spirit fills the air, and it’s a good one. It creates an atmosphere in which God can meet with his people.

Alternatively, when someone deliberately blows off congregational singing, they’re making a few statements. It can be one, a couple, or all of these:

• I don’t see God as worthy of my praise – what’s the point of joining in?
• Congregational singing’s just something we do, it has no real meaning
• I’m out of step with the brethren, and I’m being difficult on purpose

Instrumentalists participate in congregational singing by playing their instruments, and congregational singing is for everyone. This especially includes special music singers. Special music singers should serve as examples during congregational singing by singing themselves, and any special music singer that doesn’t can forget God being glorified by their performance of a special.

Congregational singing is an often overlooked yet very important part of the service. The entire purpose of congregational singing is to glorify God with a thankful heart. The next time you’re involved in congregational singing, sing it straight to God himself. Who cares what anyone else thinks. Your worship is your worship, and God craves it from you. So why not just give God what he wants? God may use your congregational singing as the gateway to his power, and if enough people start taking congregational singing seriously, who knows what God will do!




2. Group Singing


21And when he had consulted with the people, he appointed singers unto the LORD, and that should praise the beauty of holiness, as they went out before the army, and to say, Praise the LORD; for his mercy endureth for ever.

22And when they began to sing and to praise, the LORD set ambushments against the children of Ammon, Moab, and mount Seir, which were come against Judah; and they were smitten. - 2 Chronicles 20:21-22 (KJV)

When the Ammonites and Moabites came out against King Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles 20, he appointed singers, which means certain people were told to do it, and others weren’t. Presumably, the singers appointed to sing were singers who could sing better than the average person. As the singers praised the Lord as an appointed group (remember they’re ahead of the army), God set ambushments against the enemy (in other words, God did all the fighting himself). Music stirred God to action on behalf of his people.

Group singing was used to call God to action back in the Old Testament, and it will do the same today. This requires unity amongst the group members, something not always easy to accomplish. In other words, their hearts have to be aligned to the same direction for them to be useful to God.

Group singing is a special call to God for action within a service. This means that thought and prayer should go into the decision for which songs will be done. Group singing needs to be in accordance with the spirit of the service; that means that if the service is upbeat, don’t use slow, somber music and put everyone to sleep or vice versa.

Group singing is a special call for God to act in a service. As such, group singers had better be shining examples to the rest of the congregation, particularly in congregational singing.




3. Solo Singing


14And Elisha said, As the LORD of hosts liveth, before whom I stand, surely, were it not that I regard the presence of Jehoshaphat the king of Judah, I would not look toward thee, nor see thee.

15But now bring me a minstrel. And it came to pass, when the minstrel played, that the hand of the LORD came upon him. - 2 Kings 3:14-15

In 2 Kings 3, we find Elisha telling Jehoshaphat and Jehoram to get a minstrel to play for him. This caused the “hand of the LORD” to come over Elisha, giving him the understanding needed to win the battle by digging ditches. The minstrel’s music caused Elisha to be aligned to God in a very powerful way, just as the right song at the right time nowadays can cause God’s hand to come over a preacher in the same fashion.

In the portion above with Elisha, the minstrel’s playing caused God to move on Elisha. A similar occurrence can happen by playing a favorite song of the one doing the preaching. Just like anyone else, preachers have favorites songs, and sometimes being blessed by that favorite song will help him hear God much more clearly.

Solo singing fulfills the functions of the first two forms of music in a church service, but it is a step farther. An individual makes supplication before God all by himself. What would cause God to ignore a soloist? On the other hand, what would cause God to move in the music of a soloist?

The solo singer had better have it together well before getting up to sing a solo. If the solo singer lives like the devil outside of church, God will stay put. If the soloist blows off congregational singing, God won’t do a thing while that singer sings. But if the singer is sold out for Jesus outside of church service, be sure that God is listening. Remember it's God's power we're looking for, not a pristine performance from a talented and secret sin-riddled individual.




Conclusion


We discussed the 3 forms of music in the song service: congregational singing, group singing, and solo singing. Each has a specific function, and associated requirements.

Here’s the secret to singing with a clear heart every time: with no secret or unconfessed sin, sing the song directly to God. That's right - sing straight to him. It will change you overnight! If you sing in a group, sing the same way, and it’s the same thing if you sing solos. Sing those songs directly to God himself, and he’ll take care of the rest! God wants to show up in your church, and there's no better way to get his attention than with a genuinely heartfelt song service!

Next time we’ll talk about the preaching portion of the service. What is God trying to accomplish by the preaching? It changes all the time, and it helps to know what to look for when finding God’s purpose in the preaching part of the service. We’ll discuss it next time.

What A Godly HomeKeeper Is Not



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A godly keeper at home is absolutely not a lesser human being, a mindless robot, or a placid doormat under submission to all men; rather, she is created in the very image of God and of equal worth and value compared to man (Genesis 1:26-28). She is the crown of her husband (Proverbs 12:4), a helper suitable for him (Genesis 2:18). Because she trusts God’s wisdom in establishing perfect order for His creation, she willingly submits to her own husband as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22-24). by Jennie Chancey and Stacey McDonald
Certainly a woman is not as some used to think as portrayed in this humourous video. Nor is she a mindless robot as in the film Stepford Wives. We are expected to use our God-given intelligence. God expects us to be women who are sensible and intelligent but discretely so. He has given us role models in scripture. Not one of the many women of valour mentioned in scripture could be accused of being air-heads. As in everything, we are to be balanced.

Being a woman does not mean that we are intellectually inferior to a man. Neither does getting married and being submissive mean that we make ourselves into Stepford wives and put our brains on the shelf, letting our husbands do all our thinking for us. Whilst our husband should be allowed to lead and make the final decision, that does not mean that our opinion and insight is to be ignored.

Let us hold our head up high and humbly voice our opinion and think for ourselves. The key is balance and humility... something the truly feminine keeper of home will employ in her own life.

For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. Ephesians 5:23-30

Glenys Robyn Hicks of Morning Cuppas With Glenys